Dishwashing Dharma and other Musings

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Dear Dishwasher,

My name is John and I'm a student. I am writing to you, because my

class is doing a documentary on dishwashers( people dishwashers). We were looking for someone who is an "expert" on the subject, if there is such a thing. Are dishwashers treated the way you think they should be treated? And if not, how should they be treated? How do you see the dishwasher in relation to the society as a whole? And finally, could you elaborate on your philosophy on dishwashing and life (e.g., like you can't enjoy clean dishes with out the dirty dishes)? Thanks for your time.

P.s. How long have you being doing dishes?

Phil


Dear Phil,

Nobody is treated the way they should be treated all the time. Classes and races of large groups of people have been systematically mistreated since the beginning of time. In our most recent modern world the economics are the new standards by which people are judged and mistreated accordingly. By the word treated I assume you mean with dignity and respect regardless of color, religion, economic bracket or job (dishwasher). You assume by the question that dishwashers are not treated nicely. This is true but this is not a brilliant observation. So what? I'll tell you ...

Efforts to improve humanity through political action or spiritual nurturing is universal, and through all time...this business of culture, notion of progress, even evolution, stems from the premise that we can do something, and should... history has meaning right? The truth is, in political terms we haven't gotten anywhere! Life is not fair! These conditions or inequalities are the gristle out of which we work out our individual Karma...the conditions themselves are not what's important, it’s how we live around the conditions that counts...conditions are the content of our lives...how we live day by day...working out our various situations...politically, economically, etc. That is the real story being told. Pay attention to that story. Life is not just, people are not equal, the conditions are not fair...We should work to rectify that in society, but don't be deceived into thinking that is why we're here on earth, that it is our mission.

So for instance...washing dishes is no different than being president or running a large corporation when considering the spiritual mission involved (the other story). The content is different but the human challenges are similar, and in the end we all defecate and die: hard, old and useless from the political, economic perspective. So dishwashing (the actually physical work), cleaning dishes, follows the same principle that other jobs have: order to chaos, filing, management, mass production, order to chaos, whether large or small, it's all the same. People focus too much on the end result...the goal.... which by definition exists only in the future. All hail the clean dish...almighty clean dish and send the dirty ones to hell...this polarity or division of Good vs. Evil is felt more in Western society where we’re used to good and evil fighting it out. But I look at the dirty dishes with the same affection as the clean ones. Dirty dishes means we're making money …business is happening...can't have order without the previous mess, now can we? Dirty dishes are part of my context ...the process through which I learn who I am... could be dishes...could be armies...could be paper or numbers. I particularly like dishes because they are so physical, real...but that is just a personal aesthetic...the president would no doubt say the same thing about his job...or the accountant. There are many traps in life, traps that divert us from being our spiritual selves. Avoid these. One illusion is the future...(worshipping the clean dish), or an ideal (clean dishes), or hatred of the evil past (dirty dishes), arrogance of political action (see how good I do dishes), greed (see how much more money I make doing dishes than my counterpart in India?). Men are for the most part lost in hope... sacrificing for an unknown time to come... the future... or driven by fear avoiding all that is bad...the past ...that one little dirty dish If only we could get rid the world of dirty dishes, drugs, crime, hatred, etc. You see, that will never happen. Love all your dishes...like Jesus said... love your enemies.

I'm not your typical dishwasher, but frankly, you'll find if you look carefully that there are many people living the other story and simply working a job as a way of participating. These people don't buy the future (the American Dream is one version). Not climbing a corporate ladder, they are outsiders but not criminals.

For further reading: Colin Wilson's "The Outsiders."

Any Buddhist text

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